Pregnancy for me was an experience that most adults want. When My 1st born Jada was born I was unemployed, Her father worked through Temp Agencies which wasn'ta perminat position. I lived in the house with my Aunt and Grandma. They were my backbones when it came to taking care of my baby. I was a first time mom and I knew things would be difficult to handle without the help of her father living in a different household. My family was very strict, My now husband couldnt even come visit his child for long without someone peeking aroung the corner spying on us. Almost like any other teen I wanted to have a family so I sacrafice leaving the comfort of my own home to try and make things work as a family with The father. I spent countless nights out at his house. Cold winter nights I would get up and take my newborn out the house just to be with him. Kids amune system arent strong like adults, so eventually my baby end up becoming sick all the time and my aunt became very dissapointed in me because she felt I was taking the baby out the house to early and to much. I decided I wanted a family more then anything I just took most of our belongings to his house and if we ran out of anything I would wait until my aunt went to work and went home to reload. I beleive most teens are always willing to sacrifice things as I did, But in the end we realize that when your a teen pregnant mom you need to be home with your family because you have unlimited help with the baby, I eventually went back home because I became stress with taking care of the baby alone. My family welcomed me back with open arms and was very happy to have the baby back at home, They gave me like a two day break from my baby so I could catch up on my rest. I learned my lesson not to leave home because my family was supporting and helping me.
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